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Autonomous Natural Childbirth as a couple
A baby fully respected at birth arrives sleeping
A positive imprint anchored in the newborn’s subconscious
The popular belief that a newborn must cry at birth is simply wrong. One need only observe the birth of other mammals in nature to be convinced of this. Crying is a sign of suffering, distress, and trauma. The way a baby is born is imprinted in their subconscious forever.
It has been discovered that, in principle, if not disturbed, the fetus sleeps during the uterine contractions that precede delivery. We have found that children who are fully respected at birth usually arrive asleep. This was the case for nine of our eleven babies. They were fast asleep and remained asleep for several minutes or tens of minutes after birth.
Upon arrival in our world, the child is reassured when their body is held in the fetal position, curled up against their mother’s skin. If not awakened, they continue to sleep, up to twenty minutes after birth in the longest case we have observed. Then they wake up quietly, gently, without crying or screaming, but simply with curiosity and amazement at having changed universes so quickly. When they wake up, the child is happy to be able to stretch their limbs, which were cramped in the womb at the end of pregnancy. For the first time in their life, the newborn opens their eyes, which are very sensitive to light, to discover the new world around them.
It is a fabulous and magical moment, for them, for us, and for their brothers and sisters who came to meet their future playmate. The baby recognizes the familiar sounds they heard during pregnancy, especially their mother’s voice and that of loved ones. This serene atmosphere, in which they arrive and wake up, immediately places them in a precious and irreplaceable climate of trust.
When Truly Respected, the Child Feels Fully Welcomed
This builds in their unconscious a deep inner peace and a real confidence in themselves and in life forever.
When arriving in a peaceful environment, the newborn imprints in their subconscious the impression that our world is a favorable and welcoming place, filled with love, kindness, and gentleness. At this moment of great vulnerability, when they feel so fragile and at the mercy of their environment, they anchor within themselves a positive memory that initializes their cellular memory in a beneficial way.
Thus, when fully respected at the moment of birth, the newborn builds within themselves a real confidence in themselves and in life that will help them move forward for the rest of their existence, from childhood to adulthood.
Here is a video montage of the birth of our tenth child who remained asleep for ten minutes after being born.
“Offering my baby a birth with all the Respect and Love he deserves…
and thus building in his subconscious
a positive imprint of confidence in oneself and in life
that will stay with him forever..”
This article was written by Claire Loiseleur who is mother of eleven children all born in conjugal intimacy by choosing to offer our babies a birth with all the respect and love they deserve and co-author of the book:
AUTONOMOUS NATURAL CHILDBIRTH AS A COUPLE
Our journey of welcoming eleven children in Peace, Respect and Love
This book is being translated. Thank you for your patience.
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VIVRE NATURELLEMENT ET PAISIBLEMENT LA NAISSANCE
La magie d’une naissance vécue dans la douceur, la paix et l’intimité de l’amour conjugal
Témoignage de Claire et Christophe à l’occasion de la naissance de leur neuvième enfant
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The book AUTONOMOUS NATURAL CHILDBIRTH AS A COUPLE is part of the Lights for a New World books presented on the Youtube channel and Facebook page entitled : Lights for a New World
The expression « Lights for a New World » is explained on the following page :
What I call the New World is an ideal world in which we dream of living, which means a better world, a more beautiful world, a fairer world, a more harmonious world, a more pleasant world to live in and, ultimately, a happier world. A world free of fear and ego games. A world governed by the forces of authentic, unconditional and universal love. A world where peace, joy, tolerance and benevolence have become the norm.
Gandhi said : « Be the change you want to see in the world », and it’s up to each of us to act at our own level to build this New World right now. Let’s stop criticizing everything we don’t like on this Earth: it’s a waste of time and energy!
Let’s put on our glasses of love, and together, let’s be the courageous builders of a better world, more and more in line with the ideal we feel in our hearts, knowing that, as Albert Schweitzer said: « The ideal remains for us what a star is for the sailor. It cannot be reached, but it remains a guide. »
