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To build a better world governed by Love
giving BIRTH NATURALly and freely as a couple
The magic of a birth experienced in marital intimacy
When we were expecting our ninth child, we looked for DVDs of birth stories to help us experience the birth of our next baby even better. In particular, we bought DVDs from the American website « Orgasmic Birth ». We then realized that there were no DVDs showing a typical natural birth step by step.
We realized that it was up to us to make such a DVD. Our audio-visual testimony could be useful to future parents, as it’s true that understanding what’s going to happen during childbirth can reduce fears and apprehensions as the big day approaches.
So we organized ourselves to film the arrival of this ninth child, in order to produce a demonstrative video, rich in the experience we’ve gained in welcoming a child gently and peacefully.
To avoid all kinds of problems, we’ve always been extremely discreet about our deliberate choice to welcome our babies into the heart of our conjugal intimacy. As a rule, we hardly spoke to anyone about it, keeping our mouths shut before and even after the birth. Sometimes we even had to resort to lying, letting certain people believe that the child was going to be born or had been born in a hospital. See the article Unassisted childbirth : remain discreet to be free on this subject.
However, we realized that the time had come for us to break the silence and share our experience by showing our way of experiencing birth naturally and peacefully. Our DVD proves with authentic images that a couple is capable of taking full responsibility for the birth of their child in a truly conscious way.
We wanted to lift the veil on this wonderful but too little-known, often taboo and dreaded moment – the birth of a child – in order to enlighten future parents in their birth plans, and in their choice of delivery methods for the mother-to-be.
We have given this testimony at the heart of our intimate relationship, because we are convinced that children who are better respected at birth will be more fulfilled and respectful of life in the future, and will thus be able to contribute to building a more harmonious society.
Here is the introductory video for the DVD « Experiencing birth naturally and peacefully » :
« Offering my baby a birth with all the Respect and Love he deserves…
and thus building in his subconscious
a positive imprint of confidence in oneself and in life
that will stay with him forever.. »
This article was written by Claire Loiseleur who is mother of eleven children all born in conjugal intimacy by choosing to offer our babies a birth with all the respect and love they deserve and co-author of the book:
GIVING BIRTH NATURALLY AND FREELY AS A COUPLE
Our journey to welcome eleven children in Peace, Respect and Love
This book is being translated. Thank you for your patience.
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The book AUTONOMOUS NATURAL CHILDBIRTH AS A COUPLE is part of the Lights for a New World books presented on the Youtube channel and Facebook page entitled : Lights for a New World
The expression « Lights for a New World » is explained on the following page :
What I call the New World is an ideal world in which we dream of living, which means a better world, a more beautiful world, a fairer world, a more harmonious world, a more pleasant world to live in and, ultimately, a happier world. A world free of fear and ego games. A world governed by the forces of authentic, unconditional and universal love. A world where peace, joy, tolerance and benevolence have become the norm.
Gandhi said : « Be the change you want to see in the world », and it’s up to each of us to act at our own level to build this New World right now. Let’s stop criticizing everything we don’t like on this Earth: it’s a waste of time and energy!
Let’s put on our glasses of love, and together, let’s be the courageous builders of a better world, more and more in line with the ideal we feel in our hearts, knowing that, as Albert Schweitzer said: « The ideal remains for us what a star is for the sailor. It cannot be reached, but it remains a guide. »
